“There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.” Aldous Huxley
Most of us do an excellent job at trying to get others to change. The problem we face is that we fail most of time. A person only changes if they want to change. Edgar Schein, (a guru on change) based on his research, indicated that we change only when the pain not to change is greater than the pain of remaining where we’re at. If we’re sufficiently introspective we may catch glimpses of where change is beneficial for us. Once we catch a glimpse, it takes courage to accept the need to change and act on it.