One thing is certain about change, we can only change ourselves. We cannot change another person. Our attempts will be futile even when we see something that needs to change. They don’t see it or don’t want to change. Only when the need to change is greater than the effort to change, will the other person decide to change. That’s also true for you and me. Change is an internal mechanism. Each of us has the power to flip our change switch on or off. When we focus on changing ourselves for the better, our life and relationships improve.