When me becomes we, relationships work. Relationships often have bumpy stretches. Bumpy stretches are to be expected because there are two human beings choosing to be connected at a deep level. This requires each party to the relationship to yield part of themselves to the relationship. When we picture two overlapping circles it’s the area that overlaps that defines the relationship. The smaller that area, the less stable the relationship. The greater that area, the more stable the relationship. The size of that area is made up of what each party contributes to it. When both parties contribute equally there is an organic, life-like quality to it. If you’re in a relationship it might be a good time for a cheap date (head to a coffee shop) to talk about how your partner and you can grow that area that defines your relationship. Remember, the less me brings about the more we. Always check the balance issue. When only party contributes or contributes significantly resentment quickly builds. The same understanding also works in professional and friendship relationships.