Month: April 2025

Surveys, Scams, and Muffin Madness: How I Gave Away My Data for a Free Pastry

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I get lots of email or text requests for surveys. from politicians looking for a donation. They give the con that they want to know how I feel about various issues. Before you know it, I’ve answered five softball questions a second grade student could answer. It’s then that I get the “We need something else, Ray. We need your financial support.” My first thought is, “How about, I need your financial support, or “I live in Texas and this isn’t my first rodeo.”

I also receive surveys from places where I shop. I use my credit card and their apps. I get a discount when I use their apps. They get get my info. I think I’m winning these negotiations. All they get is my information. I get free airline miles and a discount. Yesterday, I had lunch with a friend at a French bakery and pastry shop. I used their app. I get points for free meals and coffee. My credit card is linked to the app. When I paid for my meal, I was asked “Do you want your receipt?” Of course I do, I might get a receipt that asks me to take a survey, only five minutes it promises, and in return I get a free pastry. Visions of a bran muffins danced in my head as the cashier pushed the button for the receipt. I knew by the length of the receipt, I was a winner. I’d have my free bran muffin.

What puzzles me is are the ads I see when I watch TV., Whether it’s the content, the visuals, or both the ads are tailored made for me. I wonder where they got all the information about me.

Red Lights, Wrong Assumptions, and a BMW to the Rescue

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I like to think of myself as a punctual guy with a sixth sense for airport timing—kind of like a human flight tracker crossed with a motivational speaker for traffic lights. Turns out, my inner GPS runs on pure hope and bad math. If you’ve ever tried to beat the clock, the construction crew, and your own overconfidence in one mad dash to Arrivals, buckle up. You’re in familiar territory.

Yesterday I was driving to the airport to pick up a friend returning from a trip to Vegas. You’d think I’d figure it out one of these days. I have a mental map of how long it takes me to drive to the airport. When I calculate this mental map I do not consider the possibility of getting a red light, traffic jams, or highway crews working on construction. I do not recommend this type of mental map to anyone who wants to avoid stress. I went online to check a flight tracker. My friend’s plane left on time and was scheduled to arrive 2 minutes early. I checked the time on my iPhone, glanced at my laptop, mentally visualized traffic parting on the highway and letting me zip right through. I decided to delay my leaving for the airport by another 15 minutes. Fifteen minutes later i recheck my friend’s flight status. This time the flight checker gave the plane’s gate arrival, which was the last gate on that terminal wing. I knew her seat number and she was sitting toward the rear of the plane. Why, I could wait another 8 minutes. Five minutes later I again checked with the flight tracker. OMG, the plane was now arriving 5 minutes early. My calculations were not accurate. I went into my garage, got in my car, pulled out and headed for the airport. Thirty seconds later, an alarm went off in my brain. “Ray, did you close the garage door?” I checked my rearview mirror and looked at any signs of oncoming traffic. All clear. I made a U turn as I were in a movie car chase scene. When I got back to my home. The garage door was down. I lost two minutes. I had to make up the time. I have 4 traffic light before I get to the highway. Bing, bing, bing, and bing. All of them red. After the last light, I had a half-mile to make it to the highway,. My brain fired up a big alarm. “Ray, I think there’s a radar trap before you get to the highway.” I was driving toward the top of a hill and can’t see over to the other side. A black BMW comes flying by making me look like a law abiding driver (I was going over the speed limit). When I reached the top of the hill, I saw the BMW pulled over by a motorcycle cop. I slowed down to show the cop I was not like the BMW driver. I was a good citizen. As soon as I got on the highway it was smooth sailing. I pulled into the arrival section just as my friend walked through the doors.

She said, “How was the drive?”

I answered, “Smooth sailing. I don’t like to rush. So, I left with plenty of time.”

Planetary Line-Up or Solar System Slip-Up?(Warning: Mercury is tired of being forgotten first.)

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Most of us learned the planets in order once upon a time… probably right before forgetting them in favor of more practical knowledge like how to microwave nachos without lighting the kitchen on fire. But today? Today we test your interplanetary IQ. Get ready to orbit into a challenge that’s hotter than Venus on a summer day.

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Today’s Quote: It’s All About Spring

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And Spring arose on the garden fair,
Like the Spirit of Love felt everywhere;
And each flower and herb on Earth’s dark breast
rose from the dreams of its wintry rest. ~Percy Bysshe Shelley

yes is a pleasant country ~ A Poem by e. e. cummings

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Yes is a pleasant country

e. e. cummings

yes is a pleasant country:
if’s wintry
(my lovely)
let’s open the year

both is the very weather
(not either)
my treasure,
when violets appear

love is a deeper season
than reason;
my sweet one
(and april’s where we’re)

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Healthy Foods: Dried Fruit Smackdown: Who’s the Healthiest Snack in the Ring?

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Ladies and gentlemen, grab your trail mix and tighten your sweatbands—because it’s time for the Ultimate Dried Fruit Showdown! In the left corner, we’ve got Fig “The Fiber Fiend” Newton. In the right? Banana “The Carb Bomb” Peelout. We’re ranking these chewy champs from the heavyweight of health down to the featherweight of “eh, eat in moderation.” Spoiler: some of your fruity favorites may be hiding behind sweet little lies.

1. Figs – “The Gut Gladiator”

Why figs win:

Packed with fiber like your grandma’s couch cushions and loaded with calcium, potassium, and antioxidants, dried figs are basically the personal trainer of dried fruit. They help digestion, stabilize blood sugar, and support bone health. Bonus: they don’t need to be soaked, smoked, or sweetened—they show up ready to rumble.

Scorecard:

  • Fiber: ✅
  • Natural sugar: Moderate
  • Micronutrients: Calcium, iron, magnesium
  • Smackdown move: Gut punch to constipation

2. Tart Cherries – “The Inflammation Eliminator”

Why they take silver:

These sour little bad boys are muscle recovery royalty. Rich in antioxidants and anti-inflammatory compounds, tart cherries have been linked to reduced post-workout soreness and better sleep. Yes, they fight inflammation and insomnia—basically, they’re the ninja of the dried fruit world.

Scorecard:

  • Fiber: ✅
  • Natural sugar: Moderate
  • Micronutrients: Vitamin C, melatonin, anthocyanins
  • Smackdown move: Sleeper hold on sore muscles

3. Raisins – “The Tiny Titan”

Why raisins land in the middle:

Raisins are like the reliable tag team partner—solid, supportive, but not exactly flashy. They’ve got iron, potassium, and boron (good for bones), but their sugar content is higher and they’re a bit sticky on the glycemic index. Great in moderation—just don’t let them suplex your blood sugar.

Scorecard:

  • Fiber: Decent
  • Natural sugar: High
  • Micronutrients: Iron, potassium, antioxidants
  • Smackdown move: Iron elbow to fatigue

4. Dates – “The Sugar Sledgehammer”

Why they’re powerful but need limits:

Yes, they’re high in fiber and minerals like magnesium and potassium. But dates are also loaded with sugar. Think of them as the heavyweight lifter who forgot leg day. Delicious and nutrient-rich—but too many and you’ll feel like you’re climbing a glucose mountain.

Scorecard:

  • Fiber: ✅
  • Natural sugar: Sky-high
  • Micronutrients: Magnesium, potassium, B6
  • Smackdown move: Body slam of sweetness

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5. Dried Bananas – “The Candy Coated Contender”

Why they finish last:

Dried bananas could be healthy—if they weren’t often fried or sweetened into little sugar grenades. Even unsweetened banana chips are carb-heavy and low on fiber. If they’re in your snack bag, treat them like your ex: fun in small doses, but don’t bring them home.

Scorecard:

  • Fiber: Low
  • Natural sugar: High (and often added sugar too)
  • Micronutrients: Potassium, vitamin B6
  • Smackdown move: Sneaky sugar sleeper

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Final Bell:

So there you have it—five dried fruit contenders, one healthy champion. Figs take the crown, tart cherries throw a strong punch, and raisins hang in the middle. Dates and bananas? Still tasty, still useful—but eat ’em like a dessert, not a daily staple.

Snack wisely, my fruity friend. And if your bag of trail mix starts talking smack… you know who to blame. 😎

Health Tip: Put a Sock in It—Literally

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When your brain won’t stop talking, sometimes the best strategy is to throw something soft at it. Like a sock. Or better yet, find one missing its partner and give it a second life—on your hand.

Tip: Do something absurd on purpose. Put a sock puppet on your hand and narrate your thoughts like a character. This flips the script on anxious thinking and recruits humor and detachment—a comedic breakup with stress.

New Podcast: When Mourning Becomes a Cage

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When mourning becomes a cage, grief isn’t just about who we lost—it becomes who we are. In this moving episode, we follow Pattie, a widow who lived in the shadow of love lost, tethered to memories that gave comfort and captivity in equal measure. Through honest reflection and a poet’s eye, we explore how grief can quietly imprison us—and how, one journal page at a time, freedom begins. This is a story of heartbreak, healing, and the breathtaking moment when the soul decides to live again.

Today’s Quote: The Pathway to a Peaceful Heart

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Sleep with clean hands, either kept clean all day by integrity or washed clean at night by repentance. ~ John Donne

Clearing at Dawn ~ A Poem by Li Po

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Clearing at Dawn

Li Po

The fields are chill, the sparse rain has stopped;
The colours of Spring teem on every side.
With leaping fish the blue pond is full;
With singing thrushes the green boughs droop.
The flowers of the field have dabbled their powdered cheeks;
The mountain grasses are bent level at the waist.
By the bamboo stream the last fragment of cloud
Blown by the wind slowly scatters away.

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