The Story You’re Still Becoming: How Each Day Rewrites the Soul

Whether joy arrives by choice or challenge arrives uninvited, the story of your life is written by one person—you.

We are all writers. Each morning when we wake, we begin writing a new chapter in our life’s story. . I’ve traveled around the sun enough times to know that life is full of unplanned surprises. Lots of them are good. And there are some that shook me to my core. That’s pretty much everybody’s story. The events are different but we’re going to get both. There are times we can make the good ones happen. And, there are times we don’t see them coming until they arrive. The same as true of the tough events. Some we can see coming from a distance and can prepare for them. And others just drop in without an invitation. How we react to these events shapes our life’s story. Rabbi Harold Kushner gives us this wisdom, “You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you will feel and do about what happens to you.”

Your life is not a finished book placed on a shelf—it is a manuscript still being written in real time. Each joy, each loss, each unexpected turn adds new paragraphs to a story no one else could ever live. Some pages arrive bright and welcomed; others arrive without warning and test the strength of your voice. But still, you write. Still, you shape meaning from what was given. And still, the next blank space waits for your hand.

We cannot always choose the chapter we’re handed, but we can always choose the sentence that follows.


Reader Question

What is one line—just one—that you hope becomes part of your story this year?

Flash Fiction Prompt: The Canoe Trip That Was Never Meant to Return

Some invitations are really traps wearing a smile—what happens when trust becomes the most dangerous seat in the boat?

Flash Fiction Prompt

Jake should’ve noticed the way his boss smiled—too wide, too calm—when he said the trip would be “good for team bonding.”

Jake had been waiting for a chance like this—an invitation from the CEO himself, a one-on-one weekend canoe trip where strategy, promotions, and future plans would be discussed over calm water and open sky. Everyone said it was a sign he was being groomed for the next big step. His wife kissed him at the door, saying she knew he’d come back with good news.

What Jake didn’t know was that his boss had already written the ending.

The lake was deep, remote, and quiet—too quiet. No cell signal, no nearby cabins, no other boats. Just the two of them and water that could swallow a man without leaving a ripple. Jake paddled with excitement. His boss paddled with calculation. A loose bolt on a seat bracket, a “surprise” shift in weight, a hand that wouldn’t reach out in time—an accident no one would question.

Jake thought the meeting was about his future. He didn’t realize it was about erasing it.


Reader Engagement Question

If you were Jake, what subtle warning sign would have convinced you something was wrong before stepping into that canoe?

Light for the Journey: The Light That Never Goes Out: Why the Human Spirit Outshines Every Darkness

Even in the darkest seasons of life, something within us refuses to surrender. What is that flame—and how do we keep it burning?

“There is something in the human spirit that will survive and prevail, there is a tiny and brilliant light burning in the heart of man that will not go out no matter how dark the world becomes.” Leo Tolstoy

Tolstoy’s words remind us that human strength isn’t measured by how easy life is, but by how fiercely the spirit continues to rise when life grows difficult. Every person carries a hidden flame—sometimes roaring, sometimes flickering, but never fully extinguished. History proves it: people have rebuilt after loss, forgiven after heartbreak, created beauty in the wake of destruction, and loved again after being wounded. That flame is not talent, nor willpower, nor blind optimism. It is something deeper: the stubborn, sacred belief that life is still worth living and love is still worth giving.

We don’t have to wait for the world to brighten—sometimes it brightens because we do.


When in your life did your inner light surprise you by shining through a dark moment?

Sky Seasoning ~ A Poem by Shel Silverstein

When Wonder Falls Into the Ordinary: How One Small Miracle Can Transform Everything

What if the difference between the dull and the delicious isn’t the recipe, but the unexpected blessing that falls into it?

Sky Seasoning

Shel Silverstein

A piece of sky
Broke off and fell
Through the crack in the ceiling
Right into my soup,
KERPLOP!
I really must state
That I usually hate
Lentil soup, but I ate
Every drop!
Delicious delicious
(A bit like plaster),
But so delicious, goodness sake–
I could have eaten a lentil-soup lake.
It’s amazing the difference
A bit of sky can make.

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Shel Silverstein reminds us—in his whimsical way—that life’s most extraordinary moments often slip in through the cracks of the ordinary. A bowl of lentil soup becomes unforgettable not because the soup changed, but because something unexpected entered the scene. In our own lives, we tend to wait for grand events, whole new beginnings, or perfect circumstances to feel wonder again. But sometimes, all it takes is a small break in the ceiling of routine—a kind word, a sunrise, a sudden laugh, a moment of grace—to make us “eat every drop” of what we once ignored.

This poem invites us to stop asking life to be different, and instead start noticing what already makes it magical. Sometimes the sky doesn’t fall to ruin us—but to flavor what we thought was bland.


What was a “bit of sky” moment in your life—something small and unexpected that changed your mood, your day, or even your outlook?

 Nature: The First Therapist

💡When life feels heavy, the earth itself offers a remedy — one leaf, one breeze, one breath at a time.

In our wired world of screens and notifications, nature has become the forgotten therapist. Yet long before psychologists, before self-help books, before meditation apps, the natural world knew how to heal the human heart.

Research confirms what our souls have always known: spending time in nature restores our attention, lowers stress, and renews emotional well-being. Environmental psychologist Stephen Kaplan calls this the “Attention Restoration Theory.” His work in the Journal of Environmental Psychology showed that natural settings allow the mind to rest and recover from constant cognitive strain.

Nature’s healing isn’t just physiological — it’s spiritual. The earth reminds us of rhythm and patience. The seasons show us that endings are also beginnings.

Even five minutes outside can shift our perspective. The sky doesn’t hurry. The trees don’t apologize for being still. Nature teaches us balance — that growth requires rest, and strength comes quietly.

“In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks.” — John Muir

Flash Fiction Prompt: The Night a Silent Witness Finally Stood Up

When the line between being a bystander and becoming a rescuer blurs, a single moment can rewrite every story that follows.

Prompt

He had seen too many things through that window, but tonight was the first time the shaking in his hands wasn’t fear—it was fury.

From his third-floor apartment, he watched the scene unfold like a cruel echo from his past. The man across the alley towered over his wife, yelling words that never reached this high but still cut like broken glass. Then came the hit—sharp, practiced, habitual. She crumpled to the floor as if gravity had betrayed her. He froze. Not because he didn’t understand what to do, but because he understood it too well. He had lived this once—same fists, different walls, different woman. He remembered the police who shrugged, the neighbors who glanced away, the nights when silence felt like another punch. But tonight felt different. The vow rose inside him like a match to gasoline: This will not happen again. Not on my watch. Not while I breathe. He grabbed his coat, his phone, and the part of him he thought he buried years ago—the part that refused to let violence win. The alley was only twenty steps away. But so was the man he used to be.


Reader Question:

If you were the witness, what would you do next—and why? Share your thoughts below.

Green Tea vs. Hibiscus Tea: Which One Is Truly Healthier?

Both teas are packed with antioxidants and healing benefits—but they support the body in very different ways. One boosts brainpower and metabolism. The other lowers blood pressure and protects the heart. Which one belongs in your daily ritual?

When it comes to healthy teas, two stand above the rest: green tea and hibiscus tea. Both are rich in antioxidants, both have been researched for years, and both offer unique benefits that go far beyond flavor. But which one is healthierdepends on what your body needs most.


🌿 Green Tea: The Metabolism & Mind Booster

Green tea is known for its natural caffeine and L-theanine—a rare amino acid that promotes calm focus. It’s also rich in EGCG, a powerful antioxidant linked to longevity, fat oxidation, better brain aging, and reduced cancer risk in long-term studies.

✅ Best for: energy, metabolism, cellular health, brain clarity

✅ Light caffeine—about ¼ of a cup of coffee

✅ Supports fat-burning and focus without jitters


🌺 Hibiscus Tea: The Heart Protector

Unlike green tea, hibiscus tea is caffeine-free and a powerhouse of anthocyanins, the same antioxidants found in blueberries and purple grapes. Multiple clinical studies show hibiscus tea may significantly lower blood pressure and LDL cholesterol in just a few weeks.

✅ Best for: lowering blood pressure, reducing inflammation, heart health

✅ Naturally tart and refreshing—iced or hot

✅ A great evening tea (no caffeine)

💡Healthiest choice? Drink both—green tea in the morning, hibiscus tea in the evening.

Light for the Journey: The Power of Perspective: Why What We Hear Isn’t Always the Truth

What if most of what we react to in life isn’t reality—but our interpretation of it?

“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective not the truth.” ~ Marcus Aurelius

Marcus Aurelius reminds us that life is filtered through the lens of our own perception. What we call “truth” is often just our angle, shaped by emotion, memory, and belief. Two people can experience the same moment and walk away with completely different stories—and both will feel certain they’re right. The invitation here is to loosen our grip on certainty. When we pause before reacting, we create space for curiosity: What else might be true? What am I not seeing? Wisdom begins when we recognize the gap between appearance and reality, and learn to hold our opinions lightly. When we do, we not only grow—we become more compassionate toward others walking through a different version of the same world.

💬 Question for Readers

When has a shift in perspective changed the way you understood a situation—or a person?

To The River ~ A Poem by Edgar Allan Poe

The Heart’s Reflection in the Water: Edgar Allan Poe’s Lesson on Love and Perception

What if the way we see someone we love is not just admiration—but a reflection of our own soul?

To The River

Edgar Allan Poe

Fair river! in thy bright, clear flow
        Of crystal, wandering water,
      Thou art an emblem of the glow
          Of beauty- the unhidden heart-
          The playful maziness of art
      In old Alberto’s daughter;

      But when within thy wave she looks-
        Which glistens then, and trembles-
      Why, then, the prettiest of brooks
        Her worshipper resembles;
      For in his heart, as in thy stream,
        Her image deeply lies-
      His heart which trembles at the beam
        Of her soul-searching eyes.

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✨ Reflection

Poe’s poem reminds us that love is as much an inward experience as an outward admiration. We don’t simply observe beauty—we echo it, hold it, and are changed by it. The river reflects her face, but the lover reflects her presence. Real love does not stay on the surface; it embeds itself, shimmering where words cannot reach.

💬 Question for Readers

Have you ever noticed how someone you love changes not just what you see—but how you see the world?

Play: The Forgotten Classroom of the Adult Soul

What if joy isn’t a distraction from life — but the very thing that makes life worth living?

Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, many of us misplaced it — tucked it behind tax forms and to-do lists. We were taught that play is frivolous, that responsibility leaves no room for joy. But the truth is, play is not a luxury. It’s the rehearsal space for imagination, resilience, and connection.

Neuroscientist Stuart Brown, founder of the National Institute for Play, discovered that play is as vital to human health as sleep or nutrition. In his landmark book Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul, he argues that when adults stop playing, they lose creativity, adaptability, and emotional range. Play isn’t optional — it’s oxygen for the soul.

Think about the last time you laughed so hard you forgot to check your phone — or became so immersed in a hobby that time disappeared. That was your spirit remembering how to breathe.

Play re-creates us. It strengthens our ability to face life’s heavier moments with humor and flexibility. It opens neural pathways that make problem-solving easier. When we let ourselves play — whether through painting, sports, music, or storytelling — we temporarily suspend self-judgment and rediscover freedom.

Modern society rewards efficiency, not wonder. But wonder is what keeps us human. Play keeps our emotional muscles limber — it helps us trust, experiment, and stay curious. Without play, our days become mechanical; with it, even the simplest tasks become infused with creativity and joy.

Today, reclaim your right to play — not as escape, but as an act of becoming.

🌱 Action Step:

Do something playful today for ten minutes — toss a ball, doodle, dance in your kitchen, sing badly on purpose. Let joy remind you that you’re alive.

“We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.”

— George Bernard Shaw

🎯 Reference

Brown, S., & Vaughan, C. (2009). Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul. Penguin.

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