Whether joy arrives by choice or challenge arrives uninvited, the story of your life is written by one person—you.
We are all writers. Each morning when we wake, we begin writing a new chapter in our life’s story. . I’ve traveled around the sun enough times to know that life is full of unplanned surprises. Lots of them are good. And there are some that shook me to my core. That’s pretty much everybody’s story. The events are different but we’re going to get both. There are times we can make the good ones happen. And, there are times we don’t see them coming until they arrive. The same as true of the tough events. Some we can see coming from a distance and can prepare for them. And others just drop in without an invitation. How we react to these events shapes our life’s story. Rabbi Harold Kushner gives us this wisdom, “You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you will feel and do about what happens to you.”
Your life is not a finished book placed on a shelf—it is a manuscript still being written in real time. Each joy, each loss, each unexpected turn adds new paragraphs to a story no one else could ever live. Some pages arrive bright and welcomed; others arrive without warning and test the strength of your voice. But still, you write. Still, you shape meaning from what was given. And still, the next blank space waits for your hand.
We cannot always choose the chapter we’re handed, but we can always choose the sentence that follows.
Reader Question
What is one line—just one—that you hope becomes part of your story this year?