The Timeless Wisdom of Letting Go: Lao Tzu’s Lesson on Beauty and Balance
We spend much of life labeling things—good or bad, beautiful or ugly. Lao Tzu reminds us that these labels are illusions of the divided mind. True peace lies not in judgment but in acceptance.
Things as Beautiful
Lao Tzu
When people see some things as beautiful,
other things become ugly.
When people see some things as good,
other things become bad.
Being and non-being create each other.
Difficult and easy support each other.
Long and short define each other.
High and low depend on each other.
Before and after follow each other.
Therefore the Master
acts without doing anything
and teaches without saying anything.
Things arise and she lets them come;
things disappear and she lets them go.
She has but doesn’t possess,
acts but doesn’t expect.
When her work is done, she forgets it.
That is why it lasts forever.
Reflection:
Lao Tzu’s Things as Beautiful reveals the delicate balance that shapes all existence. Every “beautiful” thing owes its meaning to what we call “ugly,” just as light cannot exist without shadow. The Master’s wisdom lies in seeing through these illusions and recognizing that everything simply is. This poem invites us to stop resisting the natural flow of life—to act without attachment, to love without control, and to create without clinging to outcomes. When we stop labeling experiences and instead allow them to unfold, we open ourselves to harmony with the world. Letting go doesn’t mean indifference; it means moving in rhythm with life rather than against it.
Question:
How might your life feel lighter if you stopped labeling things as good or bad—and simply allowed them to be?