Health Tips: Make Winning a Habit

Losing weight requires mental toughness. It’s not easy. Food surrounds us. We can’t live without it. The right foods sustain our health. The wrong foods can contribute to all types of health problems. So, how do you eat healthy and lose those extra pounds? You have to figure out the diet and healthy foods that work for you. You can check out my Healthy Foods & Recipes blog post. It comes out daily. Once you decide on your eating plan here’s a mental toughness tip to get you to the finish line.

Mental Toughness Tip

The following tip works with any habit you’re trying to break or instill. A big problem with breaking a habit or trying to develop a different habit is that we get discouraged when we fail. Often, after a couple of failures we may say to ourselves, “What’s the use.” We stop trying. Okay, here’s what you do. Take a plain sheet of paper. Draw a line down the middle so you have two columns. On top of the left hand column mark a W. On top of the right hand column mark an L. W equals win. L equals loss. Each day that you win put a mark under the W. Each time you fail, put a mark under the L. Here’s what you’ll see. You’ll discover that you’re getting more W’s than L’s. No sports team has all W’s. Why should you? Stay with it for 30 days. At the end of the 30 days count up your W’s and L’s. You’ll discover you’ve broken the habit you wanted to break. Or, you acquired the habit you wanted to acquire. It’s the W’s that count. You’re not perfect, you’ll get an L or two, big deal. Let’s get started. You can do this!

The Will to Win: A Poem by Berton Braley

The Will to Win

Berton Braley

If you want a thing bad enough
To go out and fight for it,
Work day and night for it,
Give up your time and your peace and your sleep for it
If only desire of it
Makes you quite mad enough
Never to tire of it,
Makes you hold all other things tawdry and cheap for it
If life seems all empty and useless without it
And all that you scheme and you dream is about it,
If gladly you’ll sweat for it,
Fret for it,
Plan for it,
Lose all your terror of God or man for it,
If you’ll simply go after that thing that you want,
With all your capacity,
Strength and sagacity,
Faith, hope and confidence, stern pertinacity,
If neither cold poverty, famished and gaunt,
Nor sickness nor pain
Of body or brain
Can turn you away from the thing that you want,
If dogged and grim you besiege and beset it,
You’ll get it!

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Inspiring Quote ~ Never Quit Trying

I’ve always made a total effort, even when the odds seemed entirely against me. I never quit trying; I never felt that I didn’t have a chance to win.

~ Arnold Palmer

Photo for Today ~ Celebrate Together

Celebrating wins

Is always  better

When we celebrate together

 

 

 

 

 

Today’s Inspiration ~ The 6 W’s for Success

“The Six W’s: Work will win when wishing won’t.”

~ Todd Blackledge

What have you lost that’s made you stronger?

What have you lost that’s made you stronger? Early in my career I took on an organization I felt was purposely biased against blacks. I tried to implement changes and was told I was dangerous and fired. It was tough being fired with five young children to support. It made me stronger, more resilient and more deeply committed to social justice. Use losses to make you stronger and more resilient. Don’t let the dark forces win.

Think About It

 I have my favorite sports teams. Some I have had since childhood and a few others I’ve picked up along the way. I enjoy watching them compete. I enjoy it when they win. If it’s a big game, the outcome of the contest affects me emotionally. I’ll hit a high note when my team wins and a low note when my team loses. During the contest my emotions often seem as if they are riding a roller coaster. Twenty-four hours after the contest, I’m off to thinking about the next game. Life is a lot like this. We go through a series of ups and downs through life. The ups are not permanent, nor are the lows permanent. As in athletic contests, life asks us to let go of the ups and downs and move on. That’s what the good teams do, they move on. That’s what healthy people do as well, they move on. 

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