Grieving Hurts Like Hell

Grieving Hurts Like Hell

I began writing Dancing Alone: Learning to Love Again less than a week after I buried my wife and best friend. Dancing Alone – Learning to Live Again is for all who grieve and want to believe the power of love will lead to healing of the physical, emotional, and spiritual pain experienced from their devastating loss. Dancing Alone – Learning to Live Again is my experience of the grieving journey. I learned grieving isn’t easy, and I had to learn how to live all over again.

Grieving isn’t easy, it hurts like hell. I am giving away an ebook copy (available on iTunes) of Dancing Alone: Learning to Live Again to 50 lucky winners who like this post and email me by midnight, December 17th. Winners will be randomly selected and notified by email with the iTunes code for downloading Dancing Alone: Learning to Live Again on December 20th. 

Poem by Tagore on Grief & Love

Say not in grief that she is no more
but say in thankfulness that she was
A death is not the extinguishing of a light,
but the putting out of the lamp
because the dawn has come.

– R. Tagore

Today’s Quote by Dostoevsky on Hope

The darker the night, the brighter the stars, The deeper the grief, the closer is God!

 Fyodor Dostoevsky

For the Record ~ Poem by Adrienne Rich

For The Record

by Adrienne Rich

The clouds and the stars didn’t wage this war
the brooks gave no information
if the mountain spewed stones of fire into the river
it was not taking sides
the raindrop faintly swaying under the leaf
had no political opinions

and if here or there a house
filled with backed-up raw sewage
or poisoned those who lived there
with slow fumes, over years
the houses were not at war
nor did the tinned-up buildings

intend to refuse shelter
to homeless old women and roaming children
they had no policy to keep them roaming
or dying, no, the cities were not the problem
the bridges were non-partisan
the freeways burned, but not with hatred

Even the miles of barbed-wire
stretched around crouching temporary huts
designed to keep the unwanted
at a safe distance, out of sight
even the boards that had to absorb
year upon year, so many human sounds

so many depths of vomit, tears
slow-soaking blood
had not offered themselves for this
The trees didn’t volunteer to be cut into boards
nor the thorns for tearing flesh
Look around at all of it

and ask whose signature
is stamped on the orders, traced
in the corner of the building plans
Ask where the illiterate, big-bellied
women were, the drunks and crazies,
the ones you fear most of all: ask where you were.

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