Light for the Journey: Attention, Awe, and the Power to Protect Our World

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What if the simple act of paying attention could make the world gentler?

“The more clearly we can focus our attention on the wonders and realities of the universe about us, the less taste we shall have for destruction.” ~.Rachel Carson

Reflection

Rachel Carson reminds us that attention is a moral act. What we choose to notice quietly shapes who we become. When we slow down enough to truly see the intricacy of the universe—the patience of trees, the choreography of stars, the intelligence of ecosystems—our impulse to harm begins to fade. Wonder softens us. Awe humbles us. Destruction thrives in distraction, in forgetting our connection to all that lives and breathes around us. But when our focus sharpens on beauty, balance, and interdependence, care naturally follows. To notice deeply is to protect instinctively. Reverence, not force, becomes the guardian of our shared world.

Something to Think About:

What small wonder could you pay closer attention to today—and how might that attention change the way you act?

Writer’s Prompt: Ten Dollars, Five Tickets, and a Promise That Wouldn’t Let Go

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Writer’s Prompt

Albert Torres stood in the harsh fluorescent glow of the convenience store, the hum of the refrigerator units sounding like tired breath. He reached into his pocket and pulled out everything he owned in the world: one ten-dollar bill, wrinkled and soft from being folded too many times. His fridge at home was empty. His rent was a month overdue. None of it mattered, not tonight.

He’d dreamed he won the lottery.

Albert slapped the bill on the counter. “Give me five two-dollar tickets,” he said, lowering his voice as if luck might be listening. “And make sure one of them’s the winner.”

The clerk looked up. Her name tag read Mary Ramirez. She raised an eyebrow. “Random numbers?”

Albert shrugged. “Why not? The numbers I’ve played every week haven’t done me any favors.”

Mary held the ten-dollars, hesitated. “I don’t play the lottery,” she said. “But I do have lucky numbers. Want to use them on a ticket?”

Albert studied her for a moment—her tired smile, the way she leaned forward as if she needed this conversation as much as he did. He rested his hand against his jaw, thinking, then said, “If I win with your numbers, will you marry me?”

Mary laughed, loud and surprised, the sound echoing off the chip racks. “I accept,” she said. “What’s your name?”

“Albert.”

He didn’t win. None of the tickets even came close. The next morning, the sun rose the same way it always did. Bills still waited. The fridge stayed empty.

But Albert couldn’t stop thinking about Mary Ramirez. About the way she laughed. About how easily she’d said yes.

Later that week, he found himself walking back into the store—not for tickets this time, but for something harder to buy.

Hope doesn’t always come with winning numbers. Sometimes it shows up as a question you weren’t brave enough to ask until you had nothing left to lose.

Writer’s Question

What happens next—and does Albert return for love, luck, or something he didn’t expect?

A Library Card, a Loving Mother, and a Lifetime of Reading

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One small library card can open worlds no passport ever could.

“What an astonishing thing a book is,” wrote Carl Sagan. With that single reflection, he captured the quiet miracle we often take for granted. A book is simple—paper, ink, and binding—yet with one glance, you enter the mind of another human being. Sometimes that mind belongs to someone who lived centuries ago. Across time and space, an author speaks clearly and silently inside your head. Books break the shackles of time. They are proof that humans are capable of working magic.

One of the most loving things my mother ever did for me was walk a mile and a half—because we didn’t own a car—to the local library when I was in first grade. She made sure I got a library card. That small rectangle of paper changed my life.

We were poor. We lived in a four-room cold-water flat next to railroad tracks. But through books, I traveled the world. I crossed oceans, climbed mountains, solved mysteries, and met heroes who showed me courage, kindness, and possibility. Books quietly told me something essential: there was more to life than the limits of my surroundings.

That early gift turned me into a lifelong reader. Decades later, I still use the library regularly. Not a day goes by without a borrowed book nearby—waiting to teach me something new, comfort me, or stretch my imagination just a little further.

Reading does more than entertain. It expands empathy, sharpens thinking, and reminds us that others have faced hardship, dreamed big, and endured long before we arrived. Read, read, and read some more. You’ll have adventures. You’ll meet heroes and villains. And you’ll discover that the world is far larger—and more hopeful—than it first appears.

Reader Question (to inspire reflection)

What book first showed you that life could be bigger than the world you knew?

Absolutely Clear ~ A Poem by Hafiz

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Let Loneliness Speak: Finding God in the Quiet Ache

What if loneliness isn’t something to escape—but something meant to awaken your deepest truth?

Absolutely Clear

Hafiz

Don’t surrender your loneliness
So quickly.
Let it cut more deep.

Let it ferment and season you
As few human
Or even divine ingredients can.

Something missing in my heart tonight
Has made my eyes so soft,
My voice
So tender,

My need of God
Absolutely
Clear.

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Reflection

Hafiz invites us to resist the urge to rush away from loneliness, treating it not as an enemy but as a teacher. In this poem, loneliness becomes a sacred space—one that softens the heart, tenderizes the voice, and clarifies the soul’s deepest longing. Rather than numbing the ache or filling it too quickly, Hafiz suggests letting it work on us, like fermentation that deepens flavor and meaning. In the stillness of absence, we often discover what truly matters. Loneliness, when honored, strips away distraction and illusion, leaving behind a clear, honest awareness of our need for connection, love, and ultimately, God.

As you read this poem, ask yourself:

When has loneliness clarified something essential in your life rather than diminished you?

Podcast: Emotional Detachment: The Quiet Skill That Protects Your Positive Attitude

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How do people who have a positive attitude stay calm without shutting down when around toxic people? This episode explores emotional detachment—staying present without carrying emotions that aren’t yours.

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Belonging Begins at Home: Acceptance as a Family Strength

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Families thrive when no one has to earn their place.

In today’s world, “family” can mean many things: single parents, blended families, co-parenting teams, grandparents raising grandkids, chosen family, foster families, LGBTQ+ families, and multigenerational homes. The structure changes. The need does not: every person needs to belong.

Virginia Satir understood this deeply. She wrote: “Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated…communication is open…”   That’s not just a pretty quote—it’s a blueprint. A healthy family is not one where everyone thinks the same; it’s one where differences don’t threaten love.

Modern research strongly backs the protective power of acceptance. A landmark study by Caitlin Ryan and colleagues found that family acceptance during adolescence predicted better self-esteem and general health and protected against depression, substance abuse, and suicidality for LGBTQ young adults.   Even if your family isn’t navigating identity questions, the message generalizes: when people feel accepted at home, their mental health improves.

So what does acceptance look like in real life?

1) Separate identity from behavior.

Acceptance does not mean approving every choice. It means: “You are loved and you belong here—even while we address this behavior.”

2) Notice the “subtle exclusions.”

Eye-rolling, sarcasm, teasing that lands as shame, “That’s not how we do things,” or constant comparisons. These tiny cuts teach family members to hide.

3) Practice “welcome language.”

Try phrases like:

• “Tell me more.”

• “That makes sense.”

• “I want to understand your view.”

Satir emphasized seeing and hearing as a form of love. “The greatest gift I can give is to see, hear, understand…”  

4) Make room for each person’s rhythm.

Some people process out loud; others need time. Inclusive families don’t force one communication style; they make space for many.

5) Build rituals of belonging.

A weekly meal, “high/low” check-in, birthday traditions, shared service projects—small habits that say: “You’re part of us.”

Acceptance creates the emotional soil where courage grows. When a child (or spouse, or sibling, or parent) doesn’t have to fight for their place in the family, they become freer to grow into who they are.

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Light for the Journey: Why Uncertainty Is Not Despair—but the Beginning of Hope

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Despair only wins when we believe the story is over—and most of the time, it isn’t.

“It is not despair, for despair is only for those who see the end beyond all doubt. We do not.” ~  J.R.R. Tolkien

Reflection

Tolkien reminds us that despair requires certainty—the belief that the story is finished. But as long as we breathe, uncertainty remains, and within uncertainty lives hope. Life rarely gives us clean endings; instead, it offers unfinished chapters, pauses, and quiet turns we don’t yet understand. When circumstances feel heavy, it’s tempting to declare the ending too soon. Yet not knowing what comes next is not weakness—it’s possibility. The future remains unwritten, shaped by courage, patience, and small acts of faith. As long as we cannot see the end “beyond all doubt,” we are still invited to walk forward, trusting that meaning may be waiting just beyond our current sight.

Something to Think About:

Where in your life might uncertainty be a doorway to hope rather than a reason to despair?

Podcast: Protecting Your Optimism: How Healthy Boundaries Keep Hope Alive

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Protecting your optimism requires more than positive thinking—it requires healthy boundaries. In this episode, Dr. Ray Calabrese explores how boundaries preserve emotional energy, prevent burnout, and allow optimism to flourish even in challenging relationships.

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Writer’s Prompt: She Opened the File That Was Never Meant to Be Seen

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Writer’s Prompt

Tonya West had always lived two lives.

By day, she was the flawless executive secretary—punctual, discreet, invisible in the way powerful men preferred. By night, curled up with a paperback thriller, she became someone else entirely: a shadowy investigator, a quiet whistleblower, a woman whose ordinary job placed her at the center of extraordinary danger.

On this particular Wednesday morning, Tonya arrived earlier than usual. The office was silent, the kind of silence that hummed. She slipped into Martin Benson’s office to prepare his coffee and tidy his desk. Benson had worked late—too late—and the evidence lay scattered in manila folders stamped CONFIDENTIAL.

Tonya told herself she was only straightening the papers.

But curiosity has a gravity of its own.

She opened one file. Then another.

What she read froze her breath mid-inhale.

Shell companies. Wire transfers. Legal loopholes threaded together like a spider’s web. Names she recognized from headlines—Russian oligarchs quietly bypassing U.S. sanctions with Benson’s careful guidance. This wasn’t speculation. It was documented. Signed. Dated.

Her hands shook as she photographed every page, angling her phone just so, careful not to disturb the order. When she finished, she reconstructed the desk with obsessive precision. No fingerprints. No suspicion.

Back at her own desk, her pulse thundered in her ears.

The CIA? The FBI? The New York Times?

Every option felt both heroic and suicidal.

At exactly 9:02 a.m., Martin Benson walked in, loosened tie, tired eyes. Tonya stood, smiled, and spoke with the same calm professionalism she had perfected over years.

“Good morning, Mr. Benson. Your coffee is waiting for you.”

He nodded, unaware.

As he passed her desk, Tonya’s thoughts sharpened into something steady and dangerous.

You don’t know what lies ahead for you.

And for the first time, Tonya realized this wasn’t a fantasy anymore.

It was a decision.

Writer’s Question

If you were Tonya, who would you contact first—and what would stop you from doing it?

The Present Moment: Where Opportunity Quietly Waits

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You may not get to choose the moment you’re in—but you always get to choose how you meet it.

“So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.” ~  J.R.R Tolkien

Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. All we truly possess is this moment—flawed, inconvenient, unfinished as it may be.

The present moment is rarely what we ordered. The circumstances may be uncomfortable. The people around us may not be the ones we hoped for. And yet, life doesn’t pause until conditions improve. It asks us to respond now.

Imagine you haven’t eaten in three days. A stranger offers you a plate of cooked cockroaches and grasshoppers. In another context, you would recoil. You would refuse without hesitation. But hunger changes perspective. Survival reframes values. What once felt unacceptable suddenly becomes an opportunity—and you accept it gratefully.

The moment didn’t change. You did.

This is how the present works. When we approach it with rigid expectations, it feels limiting. When we approach it as opportunity prospectors—searching not for comfort but for possibility—it begins to surprise us.

Being present is difficult when our attention is consumed by ourselves: our disappointments, our fears, our unmet desires. But something shifts when we turn outward. When we ask, What is this moment inviting me to learn, to give, to endure, or to become?

In that shift, the present moment lights up. Not because it became easier—but because we chose to engage with it fully.

Question for Readers

When has a difficult moment in your life revealed an unexpected opportunity—one you only recognized in hindsight?

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