It doesn’t take much to make a big difference in the world. You can do it. I can do it. We only have to bring an act of kindness, small or large, to someone, anyone. You will make their day better. You will feel better. The world will be a bit warmer and filled a bit more with love because YOU and I took a moment to be kind. Light your kindness flame with this YouTube video that shows 24 acts of kindness. You’ll leave feeling good after you watch it.
Month: September 2017
A Match Made By La Flor
“Ray?”
“Yes, La Flor?”
“O’Leary and Gina didn’t work out. I knew he was too good for her. Gina’s a gold digger and she’s looking for a sugar daddy.”
“You think O’Leary is a sugar daddy?”
“Gina never set her sights too high. Being the good person I am, I am going to set O’Leary up with Carmela, will you help me?”
“I think Carmela and TT are together. I don’t do breakups,” I said.
“Look at it from Carmela’s perspective, Ray. TT’s no fun. His idea of a fun night is to have a cup of decaf tea, hot air popcorn without anything on it, and watch AMC. Duh. Boring. We’ll be saving her from emotional starvation.”
“Every time I see them they’re happy,” I said.
“Carmela is laughing on the outside and a Ninja blender on the inside. It’s eating her alive. See what I mean?”
Not exactly, but I keep quiet, “Has she talked to you about her feelings?” I asked.
“Remember, I’m her mentor. She always asking for advice.”
“What did she say?”
“What didn’t she say is a better question, Ray.”
“I think you’re trying to start trouble because you’re bored,” I said.
“Who me?” said La Flor pointing a finger toward her face.
“Yes, you.”
“Big Carmen sent TT to New Orleans on family business. Carmela is home alone and she is the one who is bored. And, I’m not talking a small b. I’m talking a capital B. LC and me invited O’Leary and Carmela to come for dinner tonight. What are you going to make?”
“You’re going too far, La Flor.”
“No, the dining room is right over there. We won’t have to leave home. LC and me would help with the cooking, but we want to look awesome so your on your own. I prefer salmon grilled to perfection. LC wants steak and fries. O’Leary likes hotdogs with lots of ketchup. And, Carmela will have a small salad. I don’t want her to put on any more weight.”
“She’s not heavy.”
“She is a size two. That’s bigger than me. Desert will be donuts. You can order those from Joey’s.”
“Can I ask Lorenzo to cater it?”
“Okay, but don’t get in the way of love. It’s going to be a match made by La Flor. I might have a new career going.
Designed for Relationship
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Bring Back Spontaneity
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Become A Possibility Seeker
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Ask La Flor
Hi Sisters – I’m listening. I’m hear for you. I convinced Ray to let me have today’s blog – I’m winging and singing it. I’m fishing and dishing. I have no clue what I’m doing, but I was bored. He thinks I’m doing an advice column. I’ll give you a few tips that work for me.
First tip. Let him thinks what he wants to think, then do your own thing. Seems to work for me..
Second tip. Use his charge card. That way you don’t worry about how much you’re charging.
Third tip. You got to make him grovel. Grovel is good for your man.
Enter Ray.
“La Flor, I’m not going to put that on my blog. It’s terrible. It’s not the real you,” I said.
“Oh, I think it is, Ray. It works perfectly with LC. I’ve got him wrapped tight around my little finger.”
“You think so?” I said.
“Well, yes I do.”
“So it doesn’t bother you, that I saw him at the coffee shop with Gina Abbrighi, right?”
“Gina? What’s he doing with her? Were they holding hands? Did he pay for her drink? How close were they sitting?” said La Flor.
“I don’t know why they were together. They were looking at something together, like a calendar. LC shook his hand, then Gina pointed to a date, they laughed and fist bumped.”
“They fist bumped? Was it a hard bump or a gentle bump?” asked La Flor.
“I’d say a gentle bump.”
“Oh, Ray. I’ve been too rough on LC. I’m going to lose him. Help me save him from her. She’s no good for him. O’Leary is perfect for her.”
“It may be too late, you’ve been treating him like a dog. Making him grovel. You made him wear a tie all night. He’s on call 24/7. You’re wearing him out.”
“I only did it for his own good. Besides, I thought he liked it when I scratched his belly. He’d always kick his leg. And the tie? He was so handsome. Gina will do worse. You don’t know her reputation. We’ve got to save him. Do you have Lil Carlo’s cell number?”
Not a moment to soon – the door slams against the wall. The clang, the light go dim and return to full brightness.
“I’m in da vicinities,” hollered LC.
La Flor hollered, “We’re through. Get your stuff and get out before I call Lil Carlo and Big Carmen.”
“What I do? What I do? What I do? LC came running in slid to La Flor on his knees and wrapped his arms around her legs.
“Ray spotted you with Gina Abbrighi at the coffee shop. You two-timer. Let go of me.”
“I can splain every ting. I can. Honest I can.”
“It better be good. No, make that real good,” said La Flor.
“I promised Gina was gonna say nut tin, buts I gotta say some tin cause I can’t lose use beautiful, tough and edgy one,” LC now cradling his head against La Flor’s knees.
“Spill it,” said La Flor.
“Gina is gonna throw a surprise party for use because she says every woman looks up to use and we was figuring out the dates. It’s all set but use can’t know nut tin about it because it is a surprise.”
“Stand up, LC so I can jump in your arms. We’re back together.”
Some things never change.
Paying Attention To What Is Important
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She Have A Twin Sister?
“Why do I have to drive? Why are we sitting in a car on a dark street near the Fur Palace? Why are you two making out in the backseat and I have a small cold pizza from Carmen’s Pizzeria?”
No Answer. Message not received in the back seat. Only heavy breathing.
A beat up pickup pulls in front of me. It’s O’Leary.
O’Leary gets out of the pickup, walks over to the passenger side door, opens it, sees my half eaten, cold pizza on the seat. O’Leary says, “I’m hungry do you mind if I have a piece?”
“Have it all, I’m finished,” I said.
O’Leary slid into the passenger side. He layered the four pieces of pizza, opened his mouth and slid the pizza inside. After he finished chewing, he said, “This way I can tell my doc I only ate one piece.” He looked into the backseat, “Great cover, I got to hand it to them, nobody can figure them to be on stakeout. It almost looks real, what they’re doing.”
“Yah, they got it all together,” I said.
“She have a twin sister? I’m thinking of going back on the market after my bad breakup,” said O’Leary jerking a thumb over his shoulder.
“Not that I know of,” I said.
“I’m gonna hit the gym foist. I wanna lose these love handles, drop my double chin, trim my waist down about seven inches. How long you think it’s gonna take?”
I want to say an eternity. I hold my thought and said, “Oh, about two to three weeks. You have high metabolism. I can tell.”
A voice from the back.
“O’Leary, use wanna go out wit Gina Abbrighi? I can fix use up. She jus got done wit a bad breakup so use two got something in common,” said LC.
Yah, nobody likes either one. My thought remained silent.
I thought I heard the B word coming from the back seat, but I’m not sure and besides, it’s a family blog.
“Feed her donuts, O’Leary. She loves them. She’d like a dozen donuts more than a dozen roses,” said La Flor in a faux sincere voice.
“Gives me a week to go to them gym. I tink I’ll start laying off broccoli and spinach. Those go straight from the lips to the hips,” said O’Leary.
“Where’d you hear that?” I asked.
“From Joey G. He owns Joey’s donut shop.”
O’Leary felt his cell vibrate. He took it out of his pocket. Turned it on, read the text message. “French Furs was hit on the other side of town.”
O’Leary turned to the backseat, “They got some smarts; don’t know how they figured we’d be watching dis place; they hit Frenchy’s Furs on the udder side of town.”
“We’ll stay a few more minutes O’Leary in case they try to hit the Fur Palace knowing you left,” said La Flor.
“Use got brains to go wit that beauty,” said O’Leary as he closed the passenger side door.
“Besides, LC and me have a little unfinished business. Ray, keep watching the Fur Palace and turn the music up high.”
I don’t even have a cold cup of lousy coffee like they do on a TV stakeout.
How Do You Know It’s Not Illegal?
La Flor and LC took off early, they told me they were invited out for breakfast but wouldn’t say who invited them. I’m free – at least for a few hours. It’s not often I get some quiet time around here. Today’s a rare days and I’m taking advantage of it. I turned off the cell, shut off the iPad, closed the lid on my laptop. And, I brewed myself a generous cup of coffee. I take my coffee, bagel and cream cheese out to the patio. A sip of coffee. a bite of bagel, another sip of coffee, and then …
I hear the squealing of wheels. The screeching of brakes. The slamming of a car door, a pause, then the slamming of another car door. I know the pause, La Flor trained LC to open her door whenever she enters or exits a car, room, whatever. Then, the front door, recently repaired with reinforced hinges, a metal plate in the wall where the knob slams into the wall. The clang is loud enough to wake the city. My ears are ringing.
Appear La Flor and LC
“Ray, Ray, Ray,” said an excited La Flor.
I steel myself. Whenever La Flor’s excitement hits eleven on a scale of five, it’s not going to be good.
Before I can speak, LC hollers, “Ray-mo, Ray-mo, Ray-mo.”
It’s going to be worse than I can imagine. What blog writer helped them craft this storyline? I’ll get even, I won’t like their post today.
“Thanks for the coffee and bagel, Ray. Why didn’t you set a place for LC? Oh, never mind. Let me tell you what happened this morning,” said La Flor taking a bite of bagel, sip of coffee. She set the bagel down. “Bagels fill me fast, you can have the rest, LC.”
“Huh?”
“Tanks beautiful, tough, and edgy I won’t steel (yes, he said steel instead of steal) your tunder,” said LC. Two bites later, my bagel is nowhere to be seen.
“Thank you, LC. You are a gentleman unlike others at this table. Ray, we had breakfast with O’Leary at Joey’s Donut Shop. Cops and their guests get free coffee and donuts.”
“Why did O’Leary want to have breakfast with you and LC?” I asked.
“O’Leary got chewed out by his boss because of the crime wave in his precinct. He wants us to help him crack the criminal capers,” said La Flor.
“Huh?”
“May I?” said LC.
“Bring it on home you lucky to have me as your girl hunk,” said La Flor.
“O’Leary says he wants us to be undercovers in the community. Use know, keeps our ears to the ground, our noses in everybody’s business, making sure we’s got a finger in every pie. See what I’m saying?”
I see where you’re going, straight to jail. I keep my thoughts to myself. “I see what you’re saying. What are you two supposed to do?”
“We’re getting paid under the table from a slush fund that the taxpayers don’t know nothing about. Plus they’re giving us expenses and a car they confiscated from low ball crooks.”
“Anything else?”
“Me and La Flor told him any pizza orders had to come from Carmen’s Pizzeria.”
“I’ll take it from here, LC. What’s really good about the new jobs, Ray, we get inside information on all the police action. This way, we can warn Big Carmen.”
“I thought you two were working for the police?”
“We are, Ray. You are so slow to catch on. We’re going to help the police get rid of all of Big Carmen’s competitors.”
“I think this is illegal.”
“No it’s not,” said La Flor.
“How do you know it’s not illegal?” I asked.
“Remember, I was an attorney. I know the law. I think I saw an episode of NCIS or CSI or was it a movie with Will Farrell or Adam Sandler?”
“When do you start working?”
“We’re going to stake out the Fur Palace tonight, the police got a tip it’s going to be hit. We’ve got perfect cover, we’re going to make out so no one will think we’re working for the police. Of course, we’ll call Big Carmen first and tell him not to hit it.”
“How can you watch what’s happening if you’re making out?” I asked.
“Watch what?”
“Huh.”
A Simple Act Of Kindness
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