You Smile Upon Your Friend Today ~ A Poem by A. E. Housman

You Smile Upon Your Friend Today

A. E. Housman

You smile upon your friend to-day,
To-day his ills are over;
You hearken to the lover’s say,
And happy is the lover.

‘Tis late to hearken, late to smile,
But better late than never;
I shall have lived a little while
Before I die for ever.

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Get Healthy: Want to Help a Nail-Biter Stop? Here are 11 Suggestions


Helping someone stop the habit of nail-biting involves a combination of understanding, patience, and strategic interventions. Here are several approaches you can consider:

1. Identify Triggers

  • Begin by helping them identify what triggers the nail-biting behavior. It could be stress, boredom, anxiety, or other emotions. Recognizing these triggers is the first step towards managing the behavior.

2. Increase Awareness

  • Many people bite their nails unconsciously. Encourage them to become more aware of their habit by gently pointing it out when it happens or suggesting they wear a band on their finger as a reminder.

3. Substitute the Habit

  • Offer alternatives to nail-biting, such as squeezing a stress ball, playing with a fidget spinner, or manipulating putty. These can provide a physical outlet that’s less harmful.

4. Use Bitter Nail Polish

  • There are specially formulated nail polishes that taste bitter and are designed to deter nail-biting. These can be particularly effective for those who bite their nails unconsciously.

5. Keep Hands Busy

  • Encourage activities that keep the hands busy, like drawing, knitting, or playing a musical instrument. This can reduce the opportunity and temptation to bite nails.

6. Maintain Nail Care

  • Regular manicures or simply keeping the nails trimmed and filed can reduce the urge to bite them. Sometimes, the act of taking care of one’s nails can also instill a sense of pride in their appearance, discouraging biting.

7. Set Small, Achievable Goals

  • Setting small goals, such as not biting nails for one day, then gradually increasing the duration, can help build confidence and motivation.

8. Use Visual Reminders

  • Encourage them to use visual reminders of their goal to stop biting their nails. This could be a motivational note on their desk or a picture on their phone.

9. Provide Support and Encouragement

  • Offer your support and encouragement throughout their process. Celebrate their successes, no matter how small, and encourage them to keep going even if they slip up.

10. Consider Professional Help

  • If the nail-biting is severe and seems to be linked to anxiety or other psychological issues, it might be helpful to suggest seeking help from a professional, such as a therapist or counselor.

11. Mindfulness and Stress Management

  • Since nail-biting is often a response to stress or anxiety, practicing mindfulness, meditation, or other stress-reduction techniques can be beneficial.

Remember, changing a habit takes time and patience. It’s important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, avoiding any criticism or negative reinforcement that could add to the stress or anxiety that might be contributing to the nail-biting habit.

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Today’s Joke: Joe Tried Working His Pickup Line

Joe: “I went to a bar and used a new pickup line.”

Pete: “What was it?”

Joe: “I’m not cheap. But I’m on special this week.”

Embracing the Healing Power of Nature in Your Grieving Journey

Welcome to Episode 71 of Dr. Ray Calabrese’s ‘Journey from Grief to Healing’ podcast. As he takes you with him on a tranquil morning walk in San Antonio, Texas, Dr. Ray explores the profound influence of nature on our emotions and healing process as we grapple with grief. Listen as he immerses himself in his surroundings, inhaling the fragrance of the blooming mountain laurel, greeting the mockingbirds and dogs he meets along the way, and exchanging smiles with passersby, sharing his first-hand experience on how these simple, seemingly mundane activities could, over time, help deflate the grief balloon.

In this episode, Dr. Ray prompts us to consider that perhaps it’s the perfect time to emerge from our winter of grieving and welcome the warming sun of our own springtime, letting love in its manifold forms touch us, bring a smile to our faces, and hasten our healing. Echoing the profound thoughts of Victor Hugo, he emphasizes that love thrives even in the direst of circumstances, and it’s this steadfast love that can help us foster resilience and healing in the face of grief. Embrace the warming rays of spring and journey towards healing with Dr. Ray.

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Today’s Thought: You Exist – How Wonderful

Have patience with all things – but first with yourself. Never confuse your mistakes with your value as a human being. You are perfectly valuable, creative, worthwhile person simply because you exist. And no amount of triumphs or tribulations can ever change that. ~ Saint Francis de Sales

NOTE: Oftentimes the toughest critic in our lives is the critic we see in the mirror. We evaluate how we look. We critique ourselves by saying things such as, “That was dumb.” The next time you stand in front of the mirror take a cue from Saint Francis de Sales and say, “I am a perfectly valuable, creative, worthwhile person simply because I exist.” How does that make you feel? Did you try it? Say over and over until it becomes part of your belief system.

It’s Time to Exercise Your Brain – Take the Anagram Challenge  

Today’s mind sharpening anagram is a two or three word phrase. Can you unscramble the anagram to discover the two or three word phrase? It’s time to exercise your brain! 

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Today’s Inspiring Quote: Be Like Bamboo

Bamboo is flexible, bending with the wind but never breaking, capable of adapting to any circumstance. It suggests resilience, meaning that we have the ability to bounce back even from the most difficult times. . . . Your ability to thrive depends, in the end, on your attitude to your life circumstances. Take everything in stride with grace, putting forth energy when it is needed, yet always staying calm inwardly. ~ Ping Fu

Whatever Odds There Are ~ A Poem by Grantland Rice

Whatever Odds There Are

Grantland Rice

GIVE me but room to fight my way,
I ask no other gift from Fate;
Though it should crowd on me at bay,
Where only ghosts and shadows wait.

Shadows of old defeats blown by,
Ghosts of old dreams drawn from life’s pit;
Yet all I ask is room to try
And prove Fate cannot make me quit.

No glint of glory from the height,
No flare of fame to call me far;
Merely the ground to make my fight
Against whatever odds there are.

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Get Healthy: Enjoy Beans & Reduce the Flatulence

Eating beans is a healthy choice, as they are rich in protein, fiber, vitamins, and minerals. However, beans can cause flatulence for some people due to their high content of oligosaccharides, a type of sugar that the human body cannot fully digest. The bacteria in the gut ferment these sugars, producing gas as a byproduct. Here are some suggestions to enjoy beans without the added flatulence:

  1. Rinse Canned Beans: If you’re using canned beans, rinse them thoroughly under cold water to remove some of the oligosaccharides as well as the sodium used in canning.
  2. Soak Dry Beans: If you’re cooking beans from scratch, soak them in water for at least a few hours or overnight before cooking. This process helps to leach out some of the oligosaccharides. Discard the soaking water and use fresh water for cooking.
  3. Cook Beans Thoroughly: Cooking beans thoroughly can help break down some of the sugars that cause gas. Make sure the beans are cooked until they are soft and tender.
  4. Add Spices: Certain spices and herbs can help reduce gas production. Adding ingredients like ginger, cumin, fennel, and asafoetida to your beans while cooking can aid in digestion and reduce flatulence.
  5. Eat Beans Gradually: If you’re not used to eating beans, start with small amounts and gradually increase your intake over time. This allows your gut microbiome to adjust to the fiber and oligosaccharides in beans.
  6. Combine with Digestive Aids: Eating beans with foods that aid digestion can also help. For example, combining beans with grains can make a complete protein and may aid in digestion. Digestive enzymes or probiotics may also help some individuals manage gas.
  7. Chew Well: Eating slowly and chewing well can reduce the amount of air swallowed and improve digestion, reducing the likelihood of gas.
  8. Experiment with Different Types: Different types of beans have varying levels of oligosaccharides. You may find that you tolerate certain varieties better than others. For instance, black beans, pinto beans, and lentils are often easier to digest.

By implementing these strategies, you can enjoy the health benefits of beans without the discomfort of added flatulence. Each person’s digestive system is unique, so it may take some experimentation to find what works best for you.

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Today’s Joke: Joe’s Got a Great Deal

Joe: “I’m going take up sky diving. I got a good online deal on a parachute.”

Pete: “How good of a deal?”

Joe: “The ad said, ‘Like new. Used once, never opened. Small stain.'”

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