Today’s Thought: Family Matters

When I was at the gym today, I saw a friend who is recovering from extensive neck surgery. Her therapist cleared her to ride the recumbent bicycle for 20 minutes. I had to stand in front of the bicycle to talk with her because she cannot turn head, that will come with more therapy. She’s determined to come all the way back and return to her rigorous workout schedule. She spoke of how kind her husband has been during her recovery and of the generous help of her daughters. We agreed family was important. Family is a big deal. It’s where we all start. It’s our place of safety when we’re in trouble. I recall shortly after my wife died and my girls had all returned to their out-of-state homes I was alone in church kneeling and praying when the parish priest, silently came up to me and put his hand on my shoulder and asked, “Are you okay?” I stood and briefly told him my story. He gave me a hug and said, “We are your family.” That was a big deal at a the time for me. Knowing you have a family that loves you is a big deal.