Spaghetti, Stoplights, and Supermoms: The Dinner Dilemma Solved at 5:42 PM

Dinner decisions shouldn’t feel like hostage negotiations—but somehow, by 5 p.m., they do. Between the office drama, soccer duty, and a family with wildly incompatible taste buds, one mom makes the ultimate call: spaghetti saves the day. Again.

There is the common question that I think happens in most late afternoons.. “What’s for dinner?” One possible scenario where that question occurs is on the drive home from work. Perhaps some working moms may have experienced this situation when they’re rushing home and people are counting on you to make dinner.

You’re juggling thinking about dinner with all the problems you’re carrying with you from work . Then you remember, I’ve got to be a soccer mom tonight. Why didn’t I stick something in the crockpot before I left for work? If I call ahead for pizza delivery before I get home I think I can make everybody happy. Then again, pizza goes straight from the lips to the hips. When you’re 10 years old and playing soccer that doesn’t bother you. Tom won’t watch his weight, so I have to watch it for him plus my own. I could order sushi but only Tom and I would like it and I’m not sure he does. At the next stoplight I’m going to text Tom and tell him to put a big pan of water on and turn it on . I have spaghetti and a jar of sauce. I think everybody likes spaghetti. I’ll grab a loaf of crusty bread at the supermarket. Use the self checkout and be home just as the water starts spoiling. Crisis solved.

Working moms who keep it all going, how do they do it? Science can’t figure it out.

1. What’s your go-to dinner solution when you’re exhausted, running late, and everyone’s hungry? (Be honest—frozen waffles? Cereal? Creative leftovers? Let’s hear it!)
2. Have you ever felt guilty about your dinner choices—even though you’re doing your best? (Why do you think so many of us put that pressure on ourselves?)
3. If your family had to cook dinner without you for one night, what would they make—and would you eat it? (Now be brave and tell us the truth!)