Light for the Journey: Stop Comparing: Why Your Rival is Irrelevant

The Only Rival That Matters

Most people are winning the wrong race; it’s time to stop looking at the competition and start looking in the mirror.

“Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Do not bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.” William Faulkner


We spend so much of our lives looking sideways. We check our neighbor’s lawn, our colleague’s promotion, or our rival’s highlight reel. We think if we can just outpace them, we’ve won. But Faulkner hits us with a reality check: chasing someone else’s ceiling is a waste of your potential.

If you only aim to beat your peers, you’re letting their limitations set your boundaries. That’s playing small. The real magic happens when you stop competing with the world and start competing with the version of yourself that woke up this morning. Shoot for the “impossible” goal—the one that scares you a little—because even if you miss, you’ll land far beyond where “good enough” would have taken you. Your only true benchmark is your own growth.

Something to Think About: What is one “impossible” dream you’ve been suppressing just because it doesn’t fit into the status quo of your social circle?

Be a Difference Maker

Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world…would do this, it would change the earth. ~ William Faulkner

Thinking Out Loud: It’s Time To Delve Deep into Our Hearts

Today’s Thinking Out Loud reflection from William Faulkner’s Banquet Speech at the Nobel Banquet, December 10, 1950

“He must learn them again. He must teach himself that the basest of all things is to be afraid; and, teaching himself that, forget it forever, leaving no room in his workshop for anything but the old verities and truths of the heart, the old universal truths lacking which any story is ephemeral and doomed – love and honor and pity and pride and compassion and sacrifice. Until he does so, he labors under a curse. He writes not of love but of lust, of defeats in which nobody loses anything of value, of victories without hope and, worst of all, without pity or compassion. His griefs grieve on no universal bones, leaving no scars. He writes not of the heart but of the glands.” ~ William Faulkner

Note: William Faulkner won the Nobel prize for literature in 1949. In his speech, he is speaking to both young writers and to us some 70 plus years in advance. Faulkner challenges us to look into our hearts and rediscover the eternal truths residing there. He asks us to remember things like love, honor, pity, pride, compassion, and sacrifice. In a word, he asks us to rekindle our humanity. In rekindling our humanity, we can reflect on our relationships with ourself and with each other. Perhaps, it’s time to look into each of our hearts. And ask ourselves the following questions: Am I capable of compassion? Am I capable of loving unconditionally? Am I capable of providing hope and inspiration to others?

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