What did you do today to brighten someone’s day? Did you shine a light on their darkness? Did you listen to their heartbroken tale? Did you assure someone it was going to be alright? Did you give a lonely person a surprise gift? There are many ways to brighten another’s day.
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I can take things back to the store and request a refund. If I order something online and don’t like it, I can send it back for a refund. An angry or shaming word or comment can never be taken back. Once they are set free, they are heat seeking missiles determined to injure and destroy. Nothing good comes from it. The language we use determines if our interaction will be fruitful or destructive.
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Who do you love? Did you think of yourself? Loving oneself is a good starting place. When we love ourselves, we treat ourselves with compassion and forgiveness. We don’t compare ourselves to others, or believe that we are not worthy of the good things life has to offer. The more we practice loving ourselves, the more our love spills over and touches all the others who come into our life.
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The five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. Grief refers to loss. The greater the loss, the greater the grief. Denial is a tough one. It was for me when my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 brain cancer. The grief stages apply, in many ways, to all aspects of our lives. We experience a bad break up. We lose a job. We lose something we deeply believe in. It happens. Moving out of denial and into each of the successive stages is important if we are to remain emotionally healthy.
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When I go regularly to the gym I find that my pulse rate lowers, my muscles get toned, and I feel better abut myself. If I stop going to the gym, my thoughts take on a different view: the scale must be wrong. The cleaners shrunk my pants. Maybe I’ll look better with an untucked shirt. LOL I think I’ll keep going to the gym. The gym story signifies doing what’s right for the body. When we do what’s right for our emotional state, relationship state, spiritual state, we are doing what’s right for those aspects of our person.
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When we ask a question, our mind tracks the question the way radar tracks planes crossing through the skies. When we’re stuck on a question that’s leading us down a dark path (e.g., why does this person hate me?), our mind conjures up all kinds of illusionary thoughts and conspiracies. When we change our question our mind doesn’t ask why we changed the question, it hooks on to the new question. If it is a positive question, our minds flood with innovative ways to bring about a positive outcome (e.g., How can I make my spouse/partner feel unconditionally loved?).
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The greatest power each of us is in the choice of the words we use with another. Our words can lift another out of the dumps. Our words can inspire another to stretch and reach for a goal. Our words can tell another we love them. Our words can ask forgiveness and say, “I’m sorry.” Our words can also destroy, discourage, humiliate, and shame. Be a builder of people. Use the power of your words to build a better, more humane and loving world.
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We never make it on our own. There are always folks who help us. They are there at the right moment. We get a push, a door opens, a text message brings an opportunity. I’ve not deserved any of these things, yet I received them in abundance. They are gifts. It’s a good thing to stop every once in a while and remember these special people. Let them know occasionally how much you appreciate them. They’ll be grateful and you’ll feel better as well.
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I imagine if world leaders were more concerned about people than power, we’d discover ways to save the environment, end wars, stop poverty, create a world where people live harmoniously together. When we wake from our slumber, we might begin to see what is happening and demand change.
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I can look into the night sky and see the moon, planets, and constellations I am filled with awe. When I am filled with awe I know I am part of something bigger. I don’t understand it. I don’t even try. I am along for the ride as planet Earth races through the cosmos. Somethings you set thinking aside and enjoy. For me, this is one of those things.
