Chips, Salsa, and Secret Connections: How Knowing Your Waiter Turns You Into Royalty


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I enjoy making connections. I know people who make connections for personal gain, e.g., someone who can help them achieve a personal success. That’s a good thing. I like meeting people to hear their stories and perhaps build a friendship. Well, the day I went to a Mexican restaurant with a friend having a connection paid off for me.. Remember, this is San Antonio and the Mexican food is fantastic. I don’t think I’ve met a Mexican or Tex Mex restaurant I did’t like.

My friend and I were seated at our table, before we could open our menus someone brought us chips and salsa. I used all my self discipline to hold off on the chips, if I eat one, I’m done. I’ll go through a basket of those tantalizing devils. The waiters comes to our table. I know this guy. He works out at my gym and we chat when we are working out near each other. We’re on a first name basis.

Miguel asks for our orders. When it’s my turn I ordered parrillada de vegetales. It came with rice and borracho beans. I asked my Miguel to sub a second small bowl of borracho beans for the rice. When my order came, the veggies were overflowing, I got a side of guacamole I didn’t expect and a bowl of borracho beans large enough to swim in.. It pays to have a connection with a waiter.

Reflection: Different Experiences

It’s good to hang out with friends and enjoy their companionship. Their viewpoints are often different from ours and hold the potential of helping us change our point of view. When we’re open to different points of view we create an environment for learning to take place. Openness goes beyond listening to different points of view. We might try listening to different genres of music, going to a culturally different restaurant, and watching different types of movies than we generally watch. The more open we become to different viewpoints and experiences, the more we become woven into the rich fabric of life.

Today’s Joke: Joe and His GF Go to a Restaurant

Joe: “My girlfriend and I went to a restaurant and the waiter and chef were arguing.”

Pete: “What did you do?”

Joe: “We decided not to take sides.”

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