In every relationship something works. Why focus on a disagreement that only builds barriers? Focus on what is working and make more of it. When two people agree on what is working, they center their attention on creatively building the relationship. It’s always a choice, we can choose to focus on what is working and make more of it. Or, we can choose to focus on what isn’t working and create an atmosphere of blame, shame, and defensiveness.
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This is great advice. 🙂
Hi Terveen, Something works in nearly every setting. In our relationships, if we can set aside differences for a moment, and focus on what works, we will discover that we have so much more that brings us together than what separates us. Keep shinning and shine brightly. Ray
I needed that. Excellent advice,thank you!
Your welcome. Something does work, we only have to slow down and start looking for it. Ray