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We all need to be loved. There are no exceptions. Love and be loved and happiness will surround you.
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We all need to be loved. There are no exceptions. Love and be loved and happiness will surround you.
Source: Harvard Medical School Healthbeat Newsletter
The Child Angel
Tagore
Let your life come amongst them like a flame of light, my child,
unflickering and pure, and delight them into silence.
They are cruel in their greed and their envy,
their words are like hidden knives thirsting for blood.
Go and stand amidst their scowling hearts, my child,
and let your gentle eyes fall upon them like the
forgiving peace of the evening over the strife of the day.
Let them see your face, my child, and thus know the
meaning of all things, let them love you and love each other.
Come and take your seat in the bosom of the limitless, my child.
At sunrise open and raise your heart like a blossoming flower,
and at sunset bend your head and in silence
complete the worship of the day.
Joe: “I was washing my my car with my son when he asked me a question.”
Pete: “What did he ask you?”
Joe: “He said, ‘Dad, do you think you could use a sponge?”
Hope is about leaving room for something good to happen. Optimism is about having hope, trusting that things will work out. Hope and optimism are linked to your belief that things will turn out okay when change happens in your life. We know that people can learn to be more optimistic and hopeful, and that engaging in these positive behaviors can improve one’s health. In research studies, optimism and hope have been linked to better physical and mental health outcomes.1 Optimism can help people to have more successful relationships and to be more involved in their community. It can also promote a sense of well-being during difficult times.
“Dear Lord, grant me the grace of wonder. Surprise me, amaze me, awe me in every crevice of your universe. Each day enrapture me with your marvelous things without number. …I do not ask to see the reason for it all: I ask only to share the wonder of it all.”
“Surprise is the greatest gift which life can grant us (Boris Pasternak).” Sometime we call it fate or coincidence when surprise strikes. It may be the time we unexpectedly met our soul mate. it may be the time opportunity knocked and we answered the door not knowing who was knocking. Life is filled with wonderful surprises, here’s hoping heaps of great, life soaring surprises fill your day.
The Tables Turned
William Wordsworth
Up! up! my Friend, and quit your books;
Or surely you’ll grow double:
Up! up! my Friend, and clear your looks;
Why all this toil and trouble?
The sun above the mountain’s head,
A freshening lustre mellow
Through all the long green fields has spread,
His first sweet evening yellow.
Books! ’tis a dull and endless strife:
Come, hear the woodland linnet,
How sweet his music! on my life,
There’s more of wisdom in it.
And hark! how blithe the throstle sings!
He, too, is no mean preacher:
Come forth into the light of things,
Let Nature be your teacher.
She has a world of ready wealth,
Our minds and hearts to bless–
Spontaneous wisdom breathed by health,
Truth breathed by cheerfulness.
One impulse from a vernal wood
May teach you more of man,
Of moral evil and of good,
Than all the sages can.
Sweet is the lore which Nature brings;
Our meddling intellect
Mis-shapes the beauteous forms of things:–
We murder to dissect.
Enough of Science and of Art;
Close up those barren leaves;
Come forth, and bring with you a heart
That watches and receives.
Joe: “My girlfriend plays drums in a band. I got her a gift for her birthday.”
Pete: “What did you get her?”
Joe: “I got her a cymbal of my love.
Within each of us are powers and abilities we underestimate, but which can carry us through many challenges. You’re stronger than you think. . . .
“You may have heard the expression, “Hope is not a strategy.” Don’t believe it: Hope is a way of thinking that pushes us to take action. Research by C. R. Snyder found that most hopeful people had three things in common: goals, pathways (strategies), and agency. They were under no illusions that all their strategies would work; they tended to try multiple pathways, realizing that many would be blocked. But they persisted because they had an abiding belief in themselves and their capabilities.” (David Feldman)
Optimists are hope-filled people. They may, at times, get discouraged, but they push on believing tomorrow will be better than today. They push on knowing the right solution exists and they will find it.