Some questions will never have answers—but peace begins the moment we stop demanding one and start listening to what the mystery is teaching us.
Do you want to drive yourself nuts? Do you want to give yourself sleepless nights? If you do I can tell you how to do it. You won’t need an extra cup of coffee right before bed. You won’t have to read a frightful story while you’re waiting to close your eyes. You won’t have to look at all kinds of digital optics flashing at you to keep you awake. All you have to do is ask yourself why and try to figure out why something happened in your life when there is no apparent answer for it happening. Some things in our life are a mystery and they are meant to say a mystery. The great philosophers tell us to learn to live the mystery. I’ve never quite figured out what they meant by that. My own way of looking at it is to try, and sometimes it is extremely difficult, to make friends with the mystery. The answer to the mystery will never be given to us, at least in this lifetime. I think it’s there to teach us a lesson, perhaps many lessons. As we begin to learn the lessons the power of the mystery over us begins to lesson. We will all experience mysteries. We may as well make friends with the mysteries in our life and not let seeking an answer keep us awake.
What mystery in your life have you struggled to accept—and how might befriending it bring you a sense of calm or clarity?
