Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.
In Episode 65 of the “Daughter and Dad Podcast,” we delve into the profound questions that haunt us during times of grief: “Where am I going and what will I do when I get there?” This episode takes a heartfelt look at the relentless cycle of remorse, regret, and sorrow, and how we can find the strength to break free. We explore the uninhibited world of a three-year-old, filled with curiosity and devoid of fear, and discuss how we might learn from her resilience to embrace each moment anew. Drawing inspiration from George Bernard Shaw’s forward-looking perspective, we challenge ourselves to ask, “Why not me?” and contemplate the worthiness of seeking happiness and fulfillment again.
We discuss the power of holding a vision for the future, much like Michelangelo envisioned David, and how starting with a simple image in our mind can lead to great achievements. Rumi’s words remind us of our inherent potential and greatness, urging us to spread our wings and soar above our limitations.
Through the metaphorical journey of climbing Flattop Mountain and shedding the weight of our problems, we explore how symbolic actions can facilitate emotional processing, resilience, and a transition toward a hopeful future.
Finally, we invite our listeners to embrace the choices that lead to life and discovery, inspired by Paulo Coelho’s encouragement to say “yes” to life. This episode isn’t just about coping with grief; it’s a call to rediscover the vibrant life that awaits us beyond the secret gate of our innermost yearnings. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and transformation.
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In Episode 63 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I speak of spring in San Antonio, Texas, and my anticipation of it bursting forth in all its splendor. I share important questions we can ask ourselves so grieving will not hold us back and we too, can enter our springtime and burst forth into new life.
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In Episode 62 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I talk about the questions we ask while grieving that have no apparent answers. I offer a counter-intuitive way of dealing with these questions that helps to move on to acceptance living life more fully and vibrantly.
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In Episode 61 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I talk about how grieving is a multi-dimensional construct that affects nearly everyone who experiences a loss. The loss can be a loved one, job, limb, health, home or something else. We all have to navigate our way through the stages of grieving. I offer four brief lessons to help those on this journey..
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In Episode 60 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I talk about my struggle with anger and how I moved away from anger to wholeness. I learned that anger and healing can’t co-exist.
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In Episode 59 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I talk about the emotional scars that grieving leaves and offer 4 guideposts to help navigate life while one grieves.
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In Episode 58 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I reveal M’s identify. Understanding who M is and bringing someone like M into your life may be as beneficial to you as it was to me as you navigate the healing journey.
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In Episode 57 of my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing I talk about how important it is to live our life in such a way as to have no regrets, it doesn’t stop the pain associated with grieving, but it allows us to free ourselves from guilt and recrimination.
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In Episode 56 or my podcast, Journey from Grief to Healing, I talk with M about how far I have come on my grieving journey. The letter writing was an immense help. Writing the letters helped me to reframe what I lost when Babe died to viewing our relationship as a gift to be treasured.
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